Single guys dating women with kids
Social workers know that children in these situations are more likely to be abused by their mother’s lovers, so they’ll be more likely to believe you are a culprit.
Even if you are ultimately cleared of false accusations, the mere accusation can ruin your life.
That child does not need to compete with you, and you don’t need to compete with that child.
Even if you were to marry her, the child(ren) will always come first, whereas being with a childless woman means YOU come first. So you’d bond with her children and then you (and the children) would have to endure the pain of losing or restricting that bond with each other.
Especially since women are more likely to file for divorce, marrying a divorced woman means you are more likely to end up divorced from her.
Second marriages have a higher failure rate than first marriage.
Unless she was widowed because her husband was killed through no fault of his own (as opposed to guys who committed suicide, or had unhealthy lives, or were involved in crime), she picked the wrong man and/or treated him like crap.
Cheese’s AND pay for the child’s meals and entertainment.She may WANT her child(ren) to have a sibling, and you don’t want to end up being Daddy.It doesn’t matter what she says as far as “I don’t want another child” or “I can’t get pregnant” or “I’m using contraception” or “I wouldn’t ask anything of you.” Women lie or change their minds about this sort of thing all of time**, and even if she doesn’t, a court can make you be Daddy, financially anyway.7) You don’t want to be divorced.Finally, if you marry her, you will DEFINITELY be paying more.5) A woman who has given birth can’t ever have a body close to what she had before carrying a child.This is not saying that having a child isn’t worth it, but this is not about YOU having a child. Her body was changed by something that is of no benefit to you.6) You don’t want to be a father.